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Debbie L. Mayer

Bringing an Eternal Perspective

Welcome to my website! I’m so glad you decided to stop in.

The stories of life can be full of both joy and sorrow, and yet God offers comfort through His great love and mercy in the midst of our losses. I have witnessed and experienced the intersection of this joy and sorrow at the most unusual times and tell about it in the book I wrote called: After the Crash – Grieving with Hope in Light of Eternity. It’s the story of losing my three daughters in a car accident on their way to be bridesmaids in their big brother’s wedding, and my journey of grief through hoping and trusting in a faithful God.

There is power in sharing our stories. When we hear about someone else’s process, we are better able to identify our own struggles and victories, gaining both hope and courage for our own journey. 

I believe the key antidote for any broken heart or shattered dream is the love of God . Although we may not always understand what God allows, we can trust Him, when we know His love for us.

My desire is that as you visit the pages of this website and read my book, you will be inspired to embrace your own story, finding hope, encouragement, and eternal perspective, while gaining a greater understanding of God’s extravagant love.  

Love, Debbie


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After the Crash – Grieving With Hope in Light of Eternity

Most parents die before their children, but Debbie lost her three daughters in a car accident just two days before her son’s wedding they were so excited to be bridesmaids in. She shares with transparency and honesty the heartache, struggle, and victories along her journey of grief. You will see how no sorrow, loss, or disappointment can separate you from God’s great love in her captivating and inspirational book “After the Crash – Grieving With Hope in Light of Eternity”.



Selections of poetry, journal entries and lyrics written by and for Krista, Nikki and Jessica Mayer, along with lessons Debbie has learned along the way.


My Daddy Loves Me!

Yes, Jesus loves me this I know—for the Bible tells me so!  I still love to sing this familiar childhood song. I think of Jessica, my youngest daughter


When a small child falls down, all they really need is to be picked up by Mommy or Daddy and soon everything is okay. Sometimes a smile or

The Blessed Hope

The apostle Paul teaches of Jesus coming for His church in First Thessalonians 4 beginning with verse 13. He instructs us so we “Will not grieve as do